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As an old and long experienced house opener, I congratulate you, Colu. And when all the houseflies are swept up, it is indeed sweet to sit back and reflect on why you’re there. And next time add to your list: bring or leave a bottle of unmediocre wine!

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Thank you, Nancy! What a feat! The non mediocre wine piece in Nova Scotia is harder thank you think, but in full agreement! 🤣🤣

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I loved reading this. Thanks for the honest portrayal. Things are almost never as romantic as they seem. But wow ~ much to look forward to in Nova Scotia in the years to come, I am sure.

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Grazie, Domenica. And, agreed. Much to look forward to.

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This moved me so much and I cherish few things as much as our week together in Noba Scotia at yours and Chad and Joshie’s beautiful home. I wish I was there with you to sweep up the fly carnage and toast your warmth to a house that was surely relieved and exhilarated you were back HOME. As you said, be gentle with yourself....and your home and those windy poplars bringing everyone back to life❤️❤️❤️I love you and home I can visit this summer for a short weekend❤️❤️❤️

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This means so much and the feeling is so very mutual. I wish you had been there too. The poplars are our protectors it seems. I love you and I can't wait. xoxo

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Beautiful. There are so many romanticized pieces of owning second homes, and we rarely talk about the mold and mice, the realities, and tiny triumphs of a finally clean (again) fridge and a fresh start. It makes the meals and good memories of the forthcoming season all the sweeter when they come--and they will come. 🤍

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Thank you for this, Sarah. It really touched me. xo

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Jun 1, 2023Liked by Colu Henry

I loved your essay and thought how lovely to have a home in Nova Scotia. I understand and sympathize with you over the loss of a loved pet I lost my last dog Max after 14 years and although it was over 5 years ago I haven’t been able to think of replacing him. Enjoy your home in beautiful Nova Scotia this summer it sounds fantastic!

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Thank you, Kathleen. It's wild how much we love our animals and how painful it is to lose them. Max was a lucky guy.

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I really appreciate this brief essay, Colu, because I definitely see myself having some similar situations in my future (no kids, want a dog, want a summer home) so I love to know what to anticipate.

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Thank you for reading and sharing, Lauren! Sounds like we have a lot in common,

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May 31, 2023Liked by Colu Henry

Beautifully written and very evocative post Colu!

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Thank you so much, Jamie. Xx

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Love this😭 Nova Scotia is one of the most beautiful places I’ve ever seen. So cool you have a home there🌸

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Thank you so much, Angie. It truly is so special. xx

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